Stop the Self-Sabotage – How to Love Yourself

Every day, almost everywhere we look we’re bombarded with someone else’s idea of perfection. We’re told, “You need this,” “You should wear this” and “You need to be this way or that way,” but no one tells us that we’re just fine.

In this society of “whoever has the most toys wins,” no one really does.

A perfect example of self-sabotage is the story Madame Bovary. It’s a story about a woman who has it all: a loving and devoted husband, wonderful children, a beautiful house, public standing and respect, and a family who loves her dearly.

When she was young, she went to a fancy ball at a count’s home. For the rest of her life she compared everything to that one night. Nothing she ever had was enough. She cheated on her husband and ran them into debt to fill the hole in her life that she, herself, had created.

In the end, she ruined herself and her family all because nothing was ever good enough for her. Read More

Attract Employment

Are you looking for a job right now?

In today’s economic environment, with 10% unemployment and even higher in some parts of the country, it can be frightening to be without work. It’s not like it was 10 years ago when the economy was booming and you could be let go on Friday, and be back to work on Monday.

It is a reality that many big companies have downsized and even gone out of business. This leaves fewer jobs. The real estate market has declined significantly, causing people to make disastrous decisions with their finances. The stock market, while it seems to be recovering, has slashed people’s net worth to the point that people who were close to retirement will have to wait a few more years. So, this creates the effect of more people going back to work or looking for work then ever before.

These are all indisputable facts. Read More

Finding Friendship

It sometimes seems that it can be very difficult to find true friendships.

If you have partaken at all in Social Networking sites like Facebook, MySpace, or Twitter, you will find millions and millions of people trying to make a connection with new people and old acquaintances alike.

As a matter of fact, the most popular sites around today seem to be based in Social Networking in some way shape or form.

Could it be due to the fact that we may be feeling lonely inside? Read More

5 Tips To Supercharge Your Motivation

Motivation comes from knowing exactly what you want to do and having an unquenchable, burning desire to do whatever it takes to get it. Motivation drives you toward your dreams.

Here are 5 top tips to help you supercharge your motivation:

1. Make a vision board.

Fill it with images of your goals. All the things you want, your dream home, your dream car, the place you want to live. Be sure to include pictures of vacations you want to take, going first-class of course, the clothes you want to wear, fine restaurants you want to dine in – anything you can imagine that gets your heart pumping. Read More