With the love bug’s presence already being felt by many, it will be nice to talk about love and relationship this month, won’t you agree? With all the things that has happened in the last few years of your life, can you sincerely answer that you have made a progress in the “love and relationship” aspect of your life?

With people getting much more busy with their careers and personal endeavors, the time to sit back and think of having a personal loving relationship with another individual has often slipped out of many people’s mind. Searching for that “one true love” (which is a favorite theme of many Valentine movies) is more often than not a reality that most people have problems escaping. For some, they just leave it to chance to help them find their “soul mate”; that one person who seems to be the perfect fit for your personality. “The Yin for your Yang”, as most people will say. Or in Jerry McGuire’s case, the “you complete me” kind of person.

However enticing and romantic “leaving the fate of your romance to chance” may sound, this mentality is something that you should be wary about. Before you even delve into leaving the fate of your happiness, and most often than not, the fate of your future to chance, you should first ask yourself this question: Do soul mates really exist? Will fate deliver to you that one true love that you have been dreaming of all your life, or will you have to do something if you want to find the person whom you can live “happily ever after” with?

Do Soul Mates Really Exist?

People live in the idea of a perfect world where everything that makes them happy, including that special person whom they would love to spend the rest of their life with, will be handed down to them like a candy. However, most often than not this kind of mentality is what inhibits people from actually seeing the world in a different light. If you always wait for that special person to come in to your life, wouldn’t that be too risky especially with all the stakes involved?

I do believe that there is an individual who is a perfect fit for another person. Whether you call it your “soul mate”, your “friend” or simply your “loved one”, the fact that you complement each other’s personality is what makes your relationship grow stronger with time. But finding this individual should not be left to fate alone. This is the common mistake that most people make and it is also the reason why they fail in finding that relationship that can make them happy.

If you are looking to find the perfect person that you can share a personal loving relationship with, you should take away the word “perfect” and start to open up your eyes to the reality of the world. Most of the time, people just pass each other by, not even trying to make a connection with the individuals that they meet along the way. Your neighbors, your colleagues…your old classmates and childhood friends, all of them have the potential to become your “one true love” if you open your eyes to the possibility and not leave everything to chance alone!

How Can You Find A Loving Relationship?

If you really want to attract a loving relationship into your life, do not leave everything to chance! There is only so much that fate and chance can do to your life, so you must be willing to take the risk yourself and open up your self if you want to meet that special person in your life. If you close your eyes to the people that surround you everyday, chances are you are not seeing their true potential to become a “perfect fit” to the kind of person that you are. But by learning the mentality of how to be open-minded to all possible opportunities and people that may present themselves to you, you can surely find that special someone that you are looking for!